I want to photograph the considerable ceremonies of our present. I want to gather them, like somebody's grandmother putting up preserves, because they will have been so beautiful.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that those who have faced trauma have a unique strength and understanding of life that others may fear to confront.
Diane Arbus's quote reflects on the experience of trauma and its impact on individuals. It implies that while most people live in fear of experiencing traumatic events, those who have already endured such challenges possess a certain nobility and resilience. They have 'passed their test' and, therefore, have a deeper appreciation of life and a unique perspective that distinguishes them from those who seek to avoid discomfort. This perspective paints trauma not merely as a burden but as a transformative experience that can lead to strength and understanding.
Themes
TraumaStrengthResilienceLifePerspective
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational talk, mentioning how overcoming trauma can lead to personal growth.
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Freaks was a thing I photographed a lot. It was one of the first things I photographed, and it had a terrific kind of excitement for me. I just used to adore them. I still do adore some of them.
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