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People who are not in love fail to understand how an intelligent man can suffer because of a very ordinary woman. This is like being surprised that anyone should be stricken with cholera because of a creature so insignificant as the common bacillus.
Marcel Proust
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What this quote means

Love can cause profound suffering, even if it seems irrational to those outside of it.

This quote by Marcel Proust illustrates the depth of emotion that love can elicit, suggesting that those who have not experienced love may find it difficult to comprehend the suffering it can bring. It compares the impact of love to a disease, emphasizing that even ordinary experiences or people can have a significant emotional effect on others, highlighting the complexity and irrationality of romantic feelings.

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LoveSufferingEmotionIrrationalityUnderstanding

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Example use cases

In a speech about the complexities of human relationships, one could use this quote to illustrate the depths of emotional experience.

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