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Some people say, “Never let them see you cry.” I say, if you’re so mad you could just cry, then cry. It terrifies everyone.
Tina Fey
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Embracing your emotions can evoke strong reactions from others.

Tina Fey suggests that showing vulnerability through crying, especially when feeling intense emotions, can be a powerful response. Instead of hiding your feelings, expressing them openly can disrupt the expectations of those around you, potentially shifting dynamics and creating impactful moments.

Themes

EmotionsCryingVulnerabilityAuthenticityStrength

In practice

Example use cases

During a speaking engagement about mental health, I shared this quote to emphasize the importance of expressing emotions.

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