Indulgence in frivolous speech not only reveals one's lack of moral character, but it deprives him of good qualities also.
ThiruvalluvarRead
People of noble character are afraid of keeping friendship with dishonorable people. But people of discreditable character consider friendship with the dishonorable as a blood relationship.
Interpretation
Noble individuals avoid associating with dishonorable people, while those of questionable character embrace such relationships.
This quote highlights the contrast between people of noble and discreditable character in their approach to friendship. It suggests that individuals with integrity and honor seek to distance themselves from those who lack moral principles, whereas those who do not uphold such values often form connections with similarly dishonorable individuals, viewing these relationships as closely knit or even familial.
In practice
In a discussion about the importance of choosing friends wisely.
Indulgence in frivolous speech not only reveals one's lack of moral character, but it deprives him of good qualities also.
The first and most important thing a man should keep away from is not doing harm of any kind knowingly to anyone, at any time.
Among a man's many good possessions, A good command of speech has no equal. Prosperity and ruin issue from the power of the tongue. Therefore, guard yourself against thoughtless speech.
To embrace the whole world in friendship is wisdom. This wisdom is not changeable like the flowers that bloom and fade.
How can one, who eats the flesh of others to swell his flesh, show compassion?
Those who worship God only, can get rid of anxiety of mind; others cannot.
He cast off his friends as a huntsman his pack, For he knew when he pleas'd he could whistle them back.
Cultivate solitude and quiet and a few sincere friends, rather than mob merriment, noise and thousands of nodding acquaintances.
They're a rotten crowd', I shouted across the lawn. 'You're worth the whole damn bunch put together.
Only solitary men know the full joys of frienship. Others have their family; but to a solitary and an exile, his friends are everything.
The story, from beginning to end, I found again in a heart of a friend.
Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant.
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