There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends.
James BoswellRead
A companion loves some agreeable qualities which a man may possess, but a friend loves the man himself.
Interpretation
True friendship goes beyond superficial qualities and embraces the entire person.
This quote by James Boswell emphasizes the distinction between companionship and true friendship. While a companion may appreciate certain agreeable traits in a person, a true friend values and loves the individual for who they are in their entirety, including their flaws and imperfections.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of genuine relationships, you might quote this to highlight the difference between friends and mere acquaintances.
There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends.
He who has provoked the lash of wit, cannot complain that he smarts from it.
Friendship, "the wine of life," should, like a well-stocked cellar, be continually renewed.
Wine makes a man better pleased with himself. I do not say that it makes him more pleasing to others. Sometimes it does. But the danger is, that while a man grows better pleased with himself, he may be growing less pleasing to others. Wine gives a man nothing. It neither gives him knowledge nor wit; it only animates a man, and enables him to bring out what a dread of the company has presented.
A friend is one with whom you are comfortable, to whom you are loyal, through whom you are blessed, and for whom you are grateful.
Whoever understands how to do a kindness when he fares well would be a friend better than any possession.
A sympathetic friend can be quite as dear as a brother.
Ron's ears turned bright red and he become engrossed in a tuft of grass at his feet, which he prodded with his toe 'he must've known I'd run out on you'. 'No', Harry corrected him, 'He must've known you'd always want to come back
Yes, Harry Potter!β said Dobby at once, his great eyes shining with excitement. βAnd if Dobby does it wrong, Dobby will throw himself off the topmost tower, Harry Potter!β βThere wonβt be any need for that,β said Harry hastily.
So Dobby stopped us from getting on the train and broke your arm. . . ." He shook his head. "You know what, Harry? If he doesn't stop trying to save your life he's going to kill you.
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