Slow but steady wins the race.
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A doubtful friend is worse than a certain enemy. Let a man be one thing or the other, and we then know how to meet him.
Interpretation
What this quote means
It's better to know where someone stands than to deal with uncertainty in relationships.
This quote by Aesop highlights the importance of having clarity in our relationships, particularly friendships. A friend who is doubtful and uncertain can cause more harm and confusion than an outright enemy, as knowing someone's true stance allows us to navigate our interactions with them more effectively and prepare for the potential outcomes.
Themes
FriendshipTrustCertaintyRelationshipsLoyalty
In practice
Example use cases
During a friendship seminar, you might quote this to emphasize the importance of honesty in relationships.
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