The degree to which I can create relationships, which facilitate the growth of others as separate persons, is a measure of the growth I have achieved in myself.
Carl RogersRead
People only seriously consider change when they feel accepted for exactly who they are.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Change is more likely when individuals feel accepted for their true selves.
This quote by Carl Rogers highlights the importance of acceptance in the process of change. When people feel genuinely accepted and valued for who they are, they become more open to the idea of change, as this acceptance provides a safe and supportive environment for personal growth and development.
Themes
ChangeAcceptancePersonal GrowthSelf-Identity
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about personal development.
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All quotes βThe kind of caring that the client-centered therapist desires to achieve is a gullible caring, in which clients are accepted as they say they are, not with a lurking suspicion in the therapist's mind that they may, in fact, be otherwise. This attitude is not stupidity on the therapist's part; it is the kind of attitude that is most likely to lead to trust.
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I prize the privilege of being alone.
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Though modern Marriage is a tremendous laboratory, its members are often without preparation for the partnership function. How much agony and remorse and failure could have been avoided if there had been at least some rudimentary learning before they entered the partnership.
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I have come to think that one of the most satisfying experiences I know β and also one of the most growth-promoting experiences for the other person β is just fully to appreciate this individual in the same way that I appreciate a sunset.
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In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
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