A writer's job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
John IrvingRead
I take people very seriously. People are all I take seriously, in fact. Therefore, I have nothing but sympathy for how people behave - and nothing but laughter to console them with.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of understanding and accepting human behavior with compassion and humor.
John Irving's quote reflects a profound empathy towards the complexities of human nature. He suggests that by taking people seriously, we come to understand their behaviors, shortcomings, and struggles. This understanding breeds sympathy rather than judgment, allowing one to approach the follies of humanity with laughter and compassion rather than disdain.
Themes
EmpathyUnderstandingHumorSympathyPeople
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about social issues, one might say, 'I take people very seriously, and we must remember to approach their struggles with both sympathy and laughter.'
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