We were like gods at the dawning of the world, & our joy was so bright we could see nothing else but the other.
Madeline MillerRead
Perhaps it is the greatest grief, after all, to be left on earth when another is gone.
Interpretation
The deep sorrow of losing someone is compounded by the experience of continuing to live without them.
This quote reflects on the profound grief that accompanies the death of a loved one, emphasizing that one of the greatest hardships in life is the struggle to carry on in a world where someone significant is no longer present. It highlights the emotional burden of surviving after a loss, drawing attention to the loneliness and heartache that persist even as life moves forward.
In practice
Use this quote during a eulogy to express the deep pain of losing a loved one.
We were like gods at the dawning of the world, & our joy was so bright we could see nothing else but the other.
When I first started studying Greek, one of my absolute favorite parts was realizing that so many English words had these old, secret roots. Learning Greek was like being given a super-power: linguistic x-ray vision.
I found myself grinning until my cheeks hurt, my scalp prickling till I thought it might lift off my head. My tongue ran away from me, giddy with freedom. This, and this, and this, I said to him. I did not have to fear that I spoke too much. I did not have to worry that I was too slender, or too slow. This and this and this! I taught him how to skip stones, and he taught me how to carve wood. I could feel every nerve in my body, every brush of air against my skin.
I stopped watching for ridicule, the scorpion's tail hidden in his words. He said what he meant; he was puzzled if you did not. Some people might have mistaken this for simplicity. But is it not a sort of genius to cut always to the heart?
Chiron had said once that nations were the most foolish of mortal inventions. "No man is worth more than another, wherever he is from.
I don't ask anyone else to live my life. I have enough trouble doing that.
This earthly life is a battle,' said Ma. 'If it isn't one thing to contend with, it's another. It always has been so, and it always will be. The sooner you make up your mind to that, the better off you are, and more thankful for your pleasures.
Life is accumulative - Either our errors accumulate to what we don't get, or our wise decisions accumulate into what we do get.
Life is filled with detours and dead ends, trials and challenges of every kind. Each of us has likely had times when distress, anguish, and despair almost consumed us.
All life events are formative. All contribute to what we become, year by year, as we go on growing. As my friend the poet Kenneth Koch once said, You aren't just the age you are. You are all the ages you ever have been!
I suppose at one time in my life I might have had any number of stories, but now there is no other. This is the only story I will ever be able to tell.
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