Legends die hard. They survive as truth rarely does.
Helen HayesRead
Perhaps we have been misguided into taking too much responsibility from our children, leaving them too little room for discovery
Interpretation
Parents often overly restrict their children's independence, hindering their ability to learn and grow.
Helen Hayes highlights the crucial role of allowing children the space and freedom to explore and learn from their experiences. When parents take too much responsibility for their children's choices and experiences, they inadvertently limit their children's opportunities for discovery and personal growth, which are essential for developing confidence and skill in navigating life.
In practice
In a parenting workshop discussing child independence.
Legends die hard. They survive as truth rarely does.
We rely upon the poets, the philosophers, and the playwrights to articulate what most of us can only feel, in joy or sorrow. They illuminate the thoughts for which we only grope; they give us the strength and balm we cannot find in ourselves. Whenever I feel my courage wavering, I rush to them. They give me the wisdom of acceptance, the will and resiliance to push on.
Love is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity.
When traveling with someone, take large does of patience and tolerance with your morning coffee.
We relish news of our heroes, forgetting that we are extraordinary to somebody too.
One has to grow up with good talk in order to form the habit of it.
Reading is an exercise in empathy; an exercise in walking in someone else's shoes for a while.
Most of us can't rush around, talk to everyone, know all the cities of the world, we haven't time, money or that many friends. The things you're looking for... are in the world, but the only way the average chap will ever see ninety-nine per cent of them is in a book.
We're so preoccupied with protecting children from disappointment and discomfort that we're inadvertently excusing them from growing up.
Business has to have a seat at the table. Infrastructure isn't going to be built properly if business doesn't have a seat at the table. A school is not going to happen if businesses don't work with schools about what kind of jobs they really need.
Very few, if any, first-generation black or white or Asian kids will pursue a Ph.D. They'll pursue the professions for economic security. Many will go to law school and/or business school.
What we want to help children with is, just because you feel sad or happy or depressed doesn't mean that is who you are. We want them to know, 'I am really sad right now, but I am not a sad person.'
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