I prefer to be a dreamer among the humblest, with visions to be realized, than lord among those without dreams and desires.
Khalil GibranRead
If the other person injures you, you may forget the injury; but if you injure him you will always remember.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the lasting impact of our actions on others and the weight of guilt we carry when we harm someone.
Khalil Gibran highlights a profound truth about human relationships: while we can often forgive and move on from the hurt inflicted upon us by others, the remorse and memory of the pain we have caused someone else can linger indefinitely. This notion underscores the importance of being mindful of our actions and the harm they can cause, as the burden of guilt tends to stay with us longer than the hurt we experience from others.
Themes
InjuryRelationshipsMemoriesGuiltForgiveness
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be shared in a discussion about forgiveness and healing in relationships.
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