For was that all, she thought bleakly, that love ever was? Something that saved one from loneliness? A sort of insurance policy against not counting?
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How will a person know, Selina, when the soul that has the affinity with hers is near it?" She answered, "She will know. Does she look for air, before she breathes it? This love will be guided to her; and when it comes, she will know. And she will do anything to keep that love about her, then. Because to lose it will be like a death to her.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True love creates a deep, instinctual recognition between souls.
In this quote, Sarah Waters explores the idea that individuals with a deep soul connection will instinctively recognize each other, much like a person instinctively seeks air before breathing. This love is portrayed as essential for one’s existence, to the extent that losing it would feel equivalent to death, emphasizing the profound importance of love in our lives.
Themes
LoveSoulConnectionRecognitionLoss
In practice
Example use cases
This quote is perfect for a wedding speech to articulate the profound nature of true love.
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