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For was that all, she thought bleakly, that love ever was? Something that saved one from loneliness? A sort of insurance policy against not counting?
Sarah Waters
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects on love as a means to alleviate loneliness rather than an end in itself.

In this introspective quote, Sarah Waters explores the concept of love as a protective barrier against isolation. It suggests that love may serve more as a refuge from loneliness, functioning as an emotional safety net rather than a fulfilling connection, prompting contemplation on the deeper essence and purpose of love in our lives.

Themes

LoveLonelinessRelationshipsConnectionInsurance

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about the nature of love at a seminar on relationships.

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I felt that thread that had come between us, tugging, tugging at my heart - so hard, it hurt me. A hundred times I almost rose, almost went in to her; a hundred times I thought, Go to her! Why are you waiting? Go back to her side! But every time, I thought of what would happen if I did. I knew that I couldn't lie beside her, without wanting to touch her. I couldn't have felt her breath upon my mouth, without wanting to kiss her. And I couldn't have kissed her, without wanting to save her.
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How will a person know, Selina, when the soul that has the affinity with hers is near it?" She answered, "She will know. Does she look for air, before she breathes it? This love will be guided to her; and when it comes, she will know. And she will do anything to keep that love about her, then. Because to lose it will be like a death to her.
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She scissored the curls away, and - toms, grow easily sentimental over their haircuts, but I remember this sensation very vividly - it was not like she was cutting hair, it was as if I had a pair of wings beneath my shoulder-blades, that the flesh had all grown over, and she was slicing free.
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She supposed that houses, after all - like the lives that were lived in them - were mostly made of space. It was the spaces, in fact, which counted, rather than the bricks.
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