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... The person who, at any stage of a conversation, disagrees, should at least hope to reach agreement in the end. He should be as much prepared to have his own mind changed as seek to change the mind of another ... No one who looks upon disagreement as an occasion for teaching another should forget that it is also an occasion for being taught.
Mortimer Adler
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Disagreement can be a learning opportunity for both parties, not just a chance to persuade.

This quote emphasizes the reciprocal nature of conversations and disagreements. Mortimer Adler suggests that when engaging in dialogue, one should remain open-minded and willing to reconsider their own viewpoints while also seeking to influence others. In this way, disagreement serves not only as a platform for teaching but also as an opportunity for learning, fostering a more enriching exchange of ideas and perspectives.

Themes

DisagreementLearningDialogueOpen-MindednessPersuasion

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion panel about differing opinions on climate change, this quote could be used to promote respectful conversation.

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