Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
Do not answer the person whose questions are vile. Do not question a person whose answers are vile.
Interpretation
Avoid engaging with negativity or immorality in conversations.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of integrity in communication. It suggests that one should avoid responding to those who ask inappropriate or morally questionable questions, as well as refrain from questioning those who provide vile answers, promoting a dialogue of respect and moral standards.
In practice
In a debate about ethics, one could invoke this quote to encourage respectful discourse.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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