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We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.
Interpretation
What this quote means
People change over time, and it is a fortunate occurrence when love persists despite those changes.
This quote emphasizes the inevitability of change within ourselves and the people we care about. It highlights the beauty and complexity of relationships, suggesting that love is tested and can thrive even when individuals evolve in ways that alter their identities and perspectives.
Themes
ChangeLoveRelationshipsGrowthAcceptance
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about the nature of love and relationships at a wedding.
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