If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
She comprehended the perversity of life, that in the struggle lies the joy.
Interpretation
True joy comes from understanding and embracing life's challenges.
In this quote, Maya Angelou reflects on the nature of life and the inherent struggles that come with it. She suggests that joy is not found in the absence of struggle or difficulties, but rather in the acceptance and comprehension of these challenges, indicating that overcoming obstacles can lead to a deeper appreciation for life itself.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal growth and resilience.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
If you want to live an authentic, meaningful life, you need to master the art of disappointing and upsetting others, hurting feelings, and living with the reality that some people just won't like you. It may not be easy, but it's essential if you want your life to reflect your deepest desires, values, and needs.
In every case, the remedy is to take action. Get clear about exactly what it is that you need to learn and exactly what you need to do to learn it. BEING CLEAR KILLS FEAR. Make it thy business to know thyself, which is the most difficult lesson in the world.
So with each advance in understanding come new questions. So we need to be very humble. We shouldnβt have hubris and think that we can understand everything. But history tells us that there is good reason to believe that we will continue making fantastic progress in the years ahead.
The best protection for the people is not necessarily to believe everything people tell them.
Wisdom makes a slow defense against trouble, though a sure one in the end.
If I could have only one of my senses then I would choose hearing, Then I wouldn't feel so all alone.
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