You create a path of your own by looking within yourself and listening to your soul, cultivating your own ways of experiencing the sacred and then practicing it. Practicing until you make it a song that sings you.
Sue Monk KiddRead
In the photograph by my bed my mother is perpetually smiling on me. I guess I have forgiven us both, although sometimes in the night my dreams will take me back to the sadness, and I have to wake up and forgive us again.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects the complex emotions tied to familial relationships, particularly forgiveness and memory.
In this quote, Sue Monk Kidd expresses the ongoing process of forgiveness one must navigate in the context of their relationship with a loved one, in this case, her mother. The photograph symbolizes a lasting connection that brings both joy and sorrow, as it reminds her of past pains that resurface during dreams, ultimately leading to a reconciling act of forgiveness that is necessary to heal and move forward.
Themes
ForgivenessMotherRelationshipsMemoriesSadness
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech on reconciliation, I included this quote to emphasize the importance of forgiveness in family dynamics.
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Back in the autumn I had awakened to a growing darkness and cacophony, as if something in the depths were crying out. A whole chorus of voices. Orphaned voices. They seemed to speak for all the unlived parts of me, and they came with a force and dazzle that I couldn't contain. They seemed to explode the boundaries of my existence. I know now that they were the clamor of a new self struggling to be born.
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