The spiritual journey involves going beyond hope and fear, stepping into unknown territory, continually moving forward. The most important aspect of being on the spiritual path may be just to keep moving.
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We think that the point is to pass the test or overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again. It's just like that. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy. (10)
Interpretation
What this quote means
Life involves cycles of joy and sorrow, and healing comes from embracing all of our experiences.
Pema Chodron's quote emphasizes the notion that life is not about achieving a final resolution to our problems. Instead, it is a continuous cycle of coming together and falling apart, where both joy and grief coexist. Embracing this duality allows for healing and personal growth, as we make space for all emotions and experiences, recognizing their value in the tapestry of life.
Themes
HealingLifeEmotionsCyclesGrowth
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a support group meeting to encourage acceptance of complex emotions.
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