A dogmatic belief in objective value is necessary to the very idea of a rule which is not tyranny or an obedience which is not slavery.
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The most precious gift that marriage gave me was the constant impact of something very close and intimate, yet all the time unmistakably other, resistant - in a word, real.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Marriage brings a profound connection that blends intimacy with a sense of individuality.
In this quote, C. S. Lewis emphasizes the unique and invaluable nature of marriage, describing it as a relationship that offers not only deep intimacy but also the recognition of each partner as a distinct individual. He highlights the richness that comes from both closeness and the challenge of navigating differences, which together create a real and meaningful bond.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipIntimacyIndividualityLove
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding toast, one might reference this quote to highlight the importance of both connection and individuality in a marriage.
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