The transgender community has always been a part of Hawaiian society, where people who don't conform to the binary system of man/woman, masculine/feminine are accepted or, at minimum, tolerated.
Janet MockRead
'Pretty' is most often synonymous with being thin, white, able-bodied, and cis, and the closer you are to those ideals, the more often you will be labeled pretty - and benefit from that prettiness.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote critiques societal standards of beauty that privilege certain physical attributes over others.
Janet Mock's quote highlights the restrictive and often harmful beauty standards that define 'pretty' based on race, body type, ability, and gender identity. It emphasizes how those who conform to these narrow ideals enjoy societal benefits, suggesting a need for broader, more inclusive definitions of beauty that embrace diversity and reject discrimination.
Themes
BeautyStandardsDiversitySocietyIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about societal beauty norms during a panel on body positivity.
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