Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
Rollo MayRead
Problems are the outward signs of unused inner possibilities.
Interpretation
Problems reflect our untapped potential and hidden capabilities.
Rollo May's quote suggests that the challenges we face are not just obstacles but also indicators of the potential and abilities we have yet to explore within ourselves. He emphasizes that while problems can often seem daunting, they are also opportunities for growth and self-discovery, pushing us to realize our true capabilities and strengths.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal development, one might say, 'As Rollo May said, problems are the outward signs of unused inner possibilities.'
Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before
Terrorism and the whole drug scene are vivid examples of the fact that what persons abhor most of all in life is the possibility that they will not matter.
Humor is the healthy way of feeling "distance" between one's self and the problem, a way of standing off and looking at one's problem with perspective.
Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
The poet, like the lover, is a menace on the assembly line.
In almost every case (where the United States has fought wars) our overwhelming commitment to freedom, democracy and human rights has required us to support those regimes that would deny freedom, democracy and human rights to their own people.
A retaliator behaves like a hawk when he is attacked by a hawk, and like a dove when he meets a dove. When he meets another retaliator he plays like a dove. A retaliator is a conditional strategist. His behaviour depends on the behaviour of his opponent.
And sometimes you didn't want to know the end⦠because how could the end be happy?
How necessary it is at all times to watch against the attempted encroachment of power, and to prevent its running to excess.
For the saddest epitaph which can be carved in memory of a vanished freedom is that it was lost because its possessors failed to stretch forth a saving hand while there was still time.
Moral crusaders with zeal but no ethical understanding are likely to give us solutions that are worse than the problems.
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