Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
Rollo MayRead
Problems are the outward signs of unused inner possibilities.
Interpretation
Problems reflect our untapped potential and hidden capabilities.
Rollo May's quote suggests that the challenges we face are not just obstacles but also indicators of the potential and abilities we have yet to explore within ourselves. He emphasizes that while problems can often seem daunting, they are also opportunities for growth and self-discovery, pushing us to realize our true capabilities and strengths.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal development, one might say, 'As Rollo May said, problems are the outward signs of unused inner possibilities.'
Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before
Terrorism and the whole drug scene are vivid examples of the fact that what persons abhor most of all in life is the possibility that they will not matter.
Humor is the healthy way of feeling "distance" between one's self and the problem, a way of standing off and looking at one's problem with perspective.
Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
The poet, like the lover, is a menace on the assembly line.
The second best thing about space travel is that the distances involved make war very difficult, usually impractical, and almost always unnecessary. This is probably a loss for most people, since war is our race's most popular diversion, one which gives purpose and color to dull and stupid lives. But it is a great boon to the intelligent man who fights only when he must-never for sport.
There are no innocent bystanders ... what are they doing there in the first place?
If life were stable, I'd never need God's help.
If someone's liver doesn't work, we blame it on the genes; if someone's brain doesn't work properly, we blame the school. It's actually more humane to think of the condition as genetic. For instance, you don't want to say that someone is born unpleasant, but sometimes that might be true.
Alone, there is only the person inside. I've grown to like her better than the stuck-up husk of me. Alone, there is no perfect daughter, no gifted high school junior, no Kristina Georgia Snow. There is only Bree." (Ellen Hopkins)
We feel free because we lack the very language to articulate our unfreedom.
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