Real isn't how you are made. It's a thing that happens to you. Sometimes it hurts, but when you are Real you don't mind being hurt. It doesn't happen all at once. You become. Once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand. Once you are Real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.
Interpretation
Being 'Real' refers to the authenticity of one's self, which might involve pain but leads to true self-acceptance.
This quote emphasizes the concept of authenticity, suggesting that true reality is not just a state of being but a journey of becoming. Embracing your true self can involve challenges and pain, yet it ultimately leads to a lasting sense of identity and beauty that may not be appreciated by everyone, marking a profound distinction between genuine existence and societal perceptions.
In practice
This quote can be used during a motivational speech about self-acceptance and personal growth.
Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real." "Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit. "Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt.
He didn't mind how he looked to other people, because the nursery magic had made him Real, and when you are Real shabbiness doesn't matter.
When you are Real, shabbiness doesn't matter.
When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.
Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand.
A warrior has no confusion in his mind...This is true emptiness.
It is not that the Englishman can't feel-it is that he is afraid to feel. He has been taught at his public school that feeling is bad form. He must not express great joy or sorrow, or even open his mouth too wide when he talks-his pipe might fall out if he did.
All women, and men of color - we were owned like tables and chairs. We spent a hundred years getting a legal identity as human beings. That's a big thing.
I write against the religion because if women want to live like human beings, they will have to live outside the religion and Islamic law.
The Christian of the future will be a mystic or he will not exist at all.
To grow old is to grow common. Old age equalizes -- we are aware that what is happening to us has happened to untold numbers from the beginning of time. When we are young we act as if we were the first young people in the world.
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