Which doesn't mean, of course, that I'd stopped loving her, that I'd forgotten her, or that her image had paled; on the contrary; in the form of a quiet nostalgia she remained constantly within me; I longed for her as one longs for something definitively lost.
But then he told himself: What does it really mean to be useful? Today's world, just as it is, contains the sum of the utility of all people of all times. Which implies: The highest morality consists in being useless.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote challenges the notion of usefulness in society, suggesting that true morality may lie in embracing the idea of being 'useless'.
Milan Kundera's quote prompts a deep reflection on the concept of utility and the role individuals play in society. He asserts that the collective contributions of humanity define what is deemed useful, yet he provocatively suggests that morality transcends these utilitarian values, positing that perhaps the highest form of moral existence is to engage in pursuits that are not tethered to societal expectations of usefulness. This invites readers to reconsider their thoughts on purpose and value, embracing the freedom that comes from being 'useless'.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a philosophical discussion on purpose in life.
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