Life with most teenagers was like having a low-grade bladder infection. It hurts, but you had to tough it out.
You are going to have to give and give and give, or there's no reason for you to be writing. You have to give from the deepest part of yourself, and you are going to have to go on giving, and the giving is going to have to be its own reward. There is no cosmic importance to your getting something published, but there is in learning to be a giver.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the necessity of selflessness in writing and creativity, suggesting that true value lies in the act of giving rather than seeking personal gain.
Anne Lamott's quote reflects the essence of what it means to be a creator and artist. It underscores the importance of offering oneself authentically and generously in the writing process, implying that the satisfaction and significance of creating comes from the act of giving rather than from external accolades such as publication. Writing, according to Lamott, should focus on the intrinsic rewards of sharing one's thoughts and experiences rather than the external validation one might seek.
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In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be used as part of a motivational speech to aspiring writers at a literary festival.
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