How is it possible to expect that mankind will take advice when they will not so much as take warning.
Jonathan SwiftRead
The reason why so few marriages are happy is because young ladies spend their time in making nets, not in making cages.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that many young women focus on creating opportunities for relationships rather than establishing lasting commitments in marriage.
Jonathan Swift's quote reflects on the nature of relationships and marriage, implying that the pursuit of romance and social opportunities may distract young women from the deeper, more meaningful work of building a solid and fulfilling partnership. By likening relationships to 'nets' and 'cages,' he critiques an approach that prioritizes flattery and attraction over genuine connection and commitment, indicating that true happiness in marriage requires a different kind of focus and effort.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipsHappinessCommitmentLove
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used during a wedding toast to emphasize the importance of commitment.
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