No one has yet realized the wealth of sympathy, the kindness and generosity hidden in the soul of a child. The effort of every true education should be to unlock that treasure.
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On rare occasions one does hear of a miraculous case of a married couple falling in love after marriage, but on close examination it will be found that it is a mere adjustment to the inevitable.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that love may develop in marriages over time, but often it's just an adaptation to circumstances rather than true romantic fulfillment.
Emma Goldman's quote reflects on the nature of love within marriage, asserting that while there are instances where couples genuinely fall in love after tying the knot, such cases are often superficial adjustments to reality rather than deep emotional connections. The implication is that many marriages do not start from a foundation of love and, instead, evolve through pragmatic adaptations to shared life circumstances, highlighting the complexities of love and commitment.
Themes
LoveMarriageRelationshipsAdjustmentCommitment
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a discussion about the realities of marriage and love.
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