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We begin from the recognition that all beings cherish happiness and do not want suffering. It then becomes both morally wrong and pragmatically unwise to pursue only one's own happiness oblivious to the feelings and aspirations of all others who surround us as members of the same human family. The wiser course is to think of others when pursuing our own happiness.
Dalai Lama
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True happiness comes from considering the well-being of others rather than focusing solely on oneself.

This quote emphasizes the importance of recognizing our interconnectedness with others in the pursuit of happiness. The Dalai Lama suggests that while it is natural to seek personal joy, it is also vital to be aware of and sensitive to the emotions and needs of those around us. Ignoring the perspectives of others can lead to moral and practical mistakes, and a more fulfilling and wiser path involves acting with compassion and consideration for the happiness of all beings.

Themes

HappinessCompassionInterconnectednessMoralWisdom

In practice

Example use cases

During a speech on community service, you could use this quote to highlight the importance of helping others.

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