You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
Arthur AsheRead
Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner.
Interpretation
Presenting yourself confidently can influence how others perceive you.
Arthur Ashe's quote emphasizes the importance of outward appearance and demeanor, suggesting that even if one doesn't feel confident or successful internally, projecting an image of confidence can impact one's performance and how others respond. This idea promotes the notion that self-perception and external expression are interconnected, and that one's attitude can shape their experiences.
In practice
During a motivational speech at a conference.
You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
A wise person decides slowly but abides by these decisions.
When we were together, I loved you deeply and you gave me so much happiness I can never repay you.
I have always tried to be true to myself, to pick those battles I felt were important. My ultimate responsibility is to myself. I could never be anything else.
It is not just the more talented player who wins. Some players may try a little harder.
True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.
To expect defeat is nine-tenths of defeat itself. [It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. It is best to plan for all eventualities then believe in success, and only cross the failure bridge if you come to it!]
Whatever we succeed in doing is a transformation of something we have failed to do. Thus, when we fail, it is only because we have given up.
The most rewarding things you do in life are often the ones that look like they cannot be done.
How wonderful it is that we can start doing good at this very moment.
The question I ask myself like almost every day is: βAm I doing the most important thing I could be doing?' Unless I feel like Iβm working on the most important problem that I can help with, then Iβm not going to feel good about how Iβm spending my time. And thatβs what this company is.
Expect the best; convert problems into opportunities; be dissatisfied with the status quo; focus on where you want to go, instead of where you're coming from; and most importantly, decide to be happy, knowing it's an attitude, a habit gained from daily practice, and not a result or payoff.
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