You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
Arthur AsheRead
Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner.
Interpretation
Presenting yourself confidently can influence how others perceive you.
Arthur Ashe's quote emphasizes the importance of outward appearance and demeanor, suggesting that even if one doesn't feel confident or successful internally, projecting an image of confidence can impact one's performance and how others respond. This idea promotes the notion that self-perception and external expression are interconnected, and that one's attitude can shape their experiences.
In practice
During a motivational speech at a conference.
You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
A wise person decides slowly but abides by these decisions.
When we were together, I loved you deeply and you gave me so much happiness I can never repay you.
I have always tried to be true to myself, to pick those battles I felt were important. My ultimate responsibility is to myself. I could never be anything else.
It is not just the more talented player who wins. Some players may try a little harder.
True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.
I felt like a monster reincarnation of Horatio Alger: A man on the move, and just sick enough to be totally confident.
I enjoy the fun of failure. It's fun to fail, I kept repeating. It's part of being ambitious; it's part of being creative. If something is worth doing, it's worth doing badly
Keep your eyes on the finish line and not on the turmoil around you.
When we have a clear sense of our destination, we can be flexible in the route we take to reach it.
I had to make my own living and my own opportunity. But I made it! Don't sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them.
One would like to be grand and heroic, if one could; but if not, why try at all? One wants to be very something, very great, very heroic; or if not that, then at least very stylish and very fashionable. It is this everlasting mediocrity that bores me.
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