A wise person decides slowly but abides by these decisions.
Arthur AsheRead
You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
Interpretation
Prioritize the effort and journey over the outcome.
Arthur Ashe emphasizes that in life, the act of striving towards goals and taking chances is more valuable than merely achieving victory or fearing defeat. This perspective encourages individuals to embrace challenges and pursue their passions without the overbearing pressure of winning, highlighting the importance of growth and experience in the process.
In practice
In a speech to motivate students at graduation.
A wise person decides slowly but abides by these decisions.
When we were together, I loved you deeply and you gave me so much happiness I can never repay you.
I have always tried to be true to myself, to pick those battles I felt were important. My ultimate responsibility is to myself. I could never be anything else.
It is not just the more talented player who wins. Some players may try a little harder.
True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.
Trust has to be earned, and should come only after the passage of time.
Venus told me the other day that champions don't get nervous in tight situations. That really helped me a lot. I decided I shouldn't get nervous and just do the best I can.
Most of us are waiting. We're waiting for something interesting to happen. And I think we're going to wait forever if we don't do something more interesting with our lives.
Time is swift, it races by; Opportunities are born and die... Still you wait and will not try - A bird with wings who dares not rise and fly.
On a given day, a given circumstance, you think you have a limit.
Father, make of me a crisis man. Bring those I contact to decision. Let me not be a milepost on a single road; make me a fork, that men must turn one way or another on facing Christ in me.
Belief in yourself is what happens when you know you've done the thing things that entitle you to success.
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