You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
Arthur AsheRead
Trust has to be earned, and should come only after the passage of time.
Interpretation
Trust is not immediate; it must be gained over time through actions and experiences.
Arthur Ashe's quote highlights the importance of time in building trust between individuals. Rather than being given freely, trust is a commodity that requires consistent actions and respect to develop, emphasizing the idea that genuine relationships are cultivated over a period of shared experiences and reliability.
In practice
During a team-building workshop, I shared this quote to emphasize the importance of trust in collaboration.
You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
A wise person decides slowly but abides by these decisions.
When we were together, I loved you deeply and you gave me so much happiness I can never repay you.
I have always tried to be true to myself, to pick those battles I felt were important. My ultimate responsibility is to myself. I could never be anything else.
It is not just the more talented player who wins. Some players may try a little harder.
True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.
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If a person says or does something that we consider offensive, our first obligation is to refuse to take offense and then communicate privately, honestly, and directly with that individual. Such an approach invites inspiration from the Holy Ghost and permits misperceptions to be clarified and true intent to be understood.
I didn't want to be alone, but I had to learn that the dimensions of my feelings are too violent. I had to learn this.
I wish every American had an opportunity to sit down, to go to a base, to meet with families, to meet with service members, to sit down with our veterans - because we would think differently about our challenges as individuals.
When you kill somebody's little sister with a missile, he's going to hate you forever. And the next generation will hate you even more.
Introverted feeling types have a wealth of warmth and enthusiasm, but they may not show it until they know someone well. They wear their warm side inside, like a fur-lined coat.
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