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I had relationships with men as well as women. I wasn't choosing; I didn't think I had to.
Jeanette Winterson
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote expresses openness in romantic relationships, highlighting a lack of confinement to traditional norms regarding gender.

Jeanette Winterson reflects on her experiences with relationships, suggesting that her attraction to both men and women was natural and unforced. She emphasizes the idea that love and connection should not be restricted by societal labels or expectations, advocating for the acceptance of diverse sexual orientations and the fluidity of attraction.

Themes

RelationshipsLoveGenderAttractionOpenness

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be shared in a discussion about LGBTQ+ rights and the importance of recognizing all kinds of love.

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