If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
Remember this: When you cross my doorstep, you have already been raised. With what you have learned...you know the difference between right and wrong. Do right. Don't anybody raise you from the way you have been raised. Know you will have to make adaptations, in love, in relationships, in friends, in society, in work, but don't let anybody change your mind.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of staying true to one's upbringing and moral values despite external influences.
Maya Angelou's quote encourages individuals to value their upbringing and the lessons learned about right and wrong. It acknowledges that while adaptations may be necessary in various aspects of life such as love, relationships, and work, it is crucial to remain steadfast in one's principles and convictions, resisting pressures to conform to others' expectations.
In practice
During a speech about personal development, you could use this quote to highlight the importance of integrity.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
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I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
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Our patience will achieve more than our force.
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He is the best man who, when making his plans, fears and reflects on everything that can happen to him, but in the moment of action is bold.
To be authentic is literally to be your own author... to discover your own native energies and desires, and then to find your own way of acting on them.
I would not rob you of your food or your clothes or your umbrella, but if I caught your German out I would take it. But I don't study any more,- I have given it up.
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