If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
Remember, people will judge you by your actions not your intentions. You may have a heart of gold but so does a hard-boiled egg.
Interpretation
Actions speak louder than intentions, and true value is shown through behavior.
Maya Angelou emphasizes the importance of actions over intentions in how people perceive us. While one may have good intentions or a kind heart, it is ultimately the actions we take that define our character and how we are judged by others. The humorous comparison to a hard-boiled egg suggests that having a good heart is not enough if there are no accompanying actions to demonstrate it.
In practice
In a motivational speech about integrity and authenticity.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
One is rarely an impulsive innovator after the age of sixty, but one can still be a very fine orderly and inventive thinker. One rarely procreates children at that age, but one is all the more skilled at educating those who have already been procreated, and education is procreation of another kind.
I just try to make sure, in everything I do, I do what I'm supposed to be doing in a confident and a humble way at the same time. It's been working for me.
Don't find fault, find a remedy.
If you don't know your own value, somebody will tell you your value, and it'll be less than you're worth.
When we get to wishing a great deal for ourselves, whatever we get soon turns into mere limitation and exclusion.
He will therefore have to use what knowledge he can achieve, not to shape the results as the craftsman shapes his handiwork, but rather to cultivate a growth by providing the appropriate environment, in the manner in which the gardener does this for his plants.
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