We don't just want what we want because we want it; we want what we want because that's what we've learned to want.

- Hanne Blank

And last, we must bear in mind that the relationships between perception, thought, emotion, and behavior are neither automatic nor consistent. In man…

- Hanne Blank

The models we have, and the standards we are expected to maintain, come to us via heterosexuality as a normative state. Heterosexuality--whatever the…

- Hanne Blank

You have the right to not have to constantly manage how you look for other people's sake. You aren't here to decorate the world for other people. You…

- Hanne Blank

The more you behave like you have the right to exist in the world without interference, the less others will question it. The power of a fait accompl…

- Hanne Blank

Sex acts don't drive erotica, the people who engage in them do.

- Hanne Blank

Real women are fat. And thin. And neither. And both. And otherwise.

- Hanne Blank

There is no wrong way to have a body.

- Hanne Blank