Now, five years is nothing in a man's life except when he is very young and very old... - Wang Lung
Pearl S. BuckRead
You are right,” he had said. “Love is not the word. No one can love his neighbor. Say, rather, ‘Know thy neighbor as thyself.” That is, comprehend his hardships and understand his position, deal with his faults as gently as with your own. Do not judge him where you do not judge yourself. Madame, this is the meaning of the word love.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes understanding and compassion towards others as the true essence of love.
In this quote, Pearl S. Buck suggests that love is more than just an emotional attachment; it involves a deep understanding and empathy towards others. By encouraging individuals to comprehend the struggles of their neighbors and to be gentle with their faults, the quote advocates for a love that is rooted in self-awareness and compassion, urging us to avoid judgment and instead embrace mutual respect and understanding.
Themes
LoveUnderstandingCompassionEmpathyNeighbor
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used during a community service meeting to inspire volunteers to understand the needs of those they are helping.
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