When you stay in your room and rage or sneer or shrug your shoulders, as I did for many years, the world and its problems are impossibly daunting. But when you go out and put yourself in real relation to real people, or even just real animals, there’s a very real danger that you might end up loving some of them. And who knows what might happen to you then?
Interpretation
Engaging with the world and others can lead to loving connections, which may change your life.
This quote by Jonathan Franzen highlights the importance of stepping out of isolation and forming real connections with people and animals. While staying withdrawn can make the world's problems seem overwhelming, interacting with others can lead to meaningful relationships and emotional experiences that can transform one's perspective and life.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming loneliness, this quote could be used to encourage others to connect with their community.
Every good writer I know needs to go into some deep, quiet place to do work that is fully imagined. And what the Internet brings is lots of vulgar data. It is the antithesis of the imagination. It leaves nothing to the imagination.
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Good novels are produced by people who voluntarily isolate themselves and go deep, and report from the depths on what they find.
Marriage equality does not diminish the worth of your relationships; it simply recognises the worth of ours.
Getting people to like you is merely the other side of liking them.
[T]he "home" represents the most precious human treasures, that of encounter, that of relations among people, different in age, culture and history, but who live together and together help one another to grow. For this reason, the "home" is a crucial place in life, where life grows and can be fulfilled, because it is a place in which every person learns to receive love and to give love.
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There was nowhere to go, but I turned to go and met Atticus's vest front. I buried my head in it and listened to the small internal noises that went on behind the light blue cloth: his watch ticking, the faint crackle of his starched shirt, the soft sound of his breathing. 'Your stomach's growling,' I said. 'I know it,' he said.
Class can 'walk with kings and keep its virtue and talk with crowds and keep the common touch.' Everyone is comfortable with the person who has class because that person is comfortable with himself.
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