To the generous mind the heaviest debt is that of gratitude, when it is not in our power to repay it.
Benjamin FranklinRead
The rotten apple spoils his companion.
Interpretation
Negative influences can affect those around us.
This quote by Benjamin Franklin highlights the idea that a bad influence, much like a rotten apple, can negatively impact those who are close to it. In relationships, whether personal or professional, it's crucial to recognize that toxic behaviors can spread and affect the well-being of others, emphasizing the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences.
In practice
During a team meeting, to explain why it's important to maintain a positive environment, one might say, 'Remember, the rotten apple spoils his companion.'
To the generous mind the heaviest debt is that of gratitude, when it is not in our power to repay it.
He'll cheat without scruple, who can without fear.
[E]very Man who comes among us, and takes up a piece of Land, becomes a Citizen, and by our Constitution has a Voice in Elections, and a share in the Government of the Country.
Our Constitution is in actual operation; everything appears to promise that it will last; but in this world nothing is certain but death and taxes.
Let honesty and industry be thy constant companions, and spend one penny less than thy clear gains; then shall thy pocket begin to thrive; creditors will not insult, nor want oppress, nor hungerness bite, nor nakedness freeze thee
I think that a young state, like a young virgin, should modestly stay at home, and wait the application of suitors for an alliance with her; and not run about offering her amity to all the world; and hazarding their refusal. Our virgin is a jolly one; and tho at present not very rich, will in time be a great fortune, and where she has a favorable predisposition, it seems to me well worth cultivating.
But I'd rather help than watch. I'd rather have a heart than a mind. I'd rather expose too much than too little. I'd rather say hello to strangers than be afraid of them. I would rather know all this about myself than have more money than I need. I'd rather have something to love than a way to impress you.
My feminist training was that this was your goal, to be a self-sufficient woman, but that is a miscalculation. It's just not the way we work. We work in dialogue with the community.
There was brotherhood between people who had fed from the same breast, a kinship that even time could not break. - Amir
Normally, when someone we love is turning away from a struggle, we self-protect by also turning away. That's definitely my first response. I think change is more likely to happen if both partners have common language and a shared lens to see problems.
You know, I'm gay and I grew up being aware of that at a very early age, in a fairly repressed family.
A lot of times, rather than helping people with horse problems, I'm helping horses with people problems.
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