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Sadness, seriousness are parts of a psychologically sick man - they need causes. So when you are feeling happy, don't start asking, "Why am I happy?" When you are feeling sad ask why you are sad. But strangely, it has become conventional to our minds that when we are sad we accept it as if it is our nature. And when we are joyous even we are surprised; deep inside we even start worrying: "What is happening to me?"
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the importance of understanding the reasons behind our emotions, particularly sadness and happiness.
Rajneesh reflects on how society often normalizes feelings of sadness while questioning moments of happiness. He suggests that while sadness may have identifiable causes, joy is often met with surprise and suspicion, encouraging us to explore our emotional landscape more deeply and recognize that it is natural to experience a range of feelings.
Themes
HappinessSadnessEmotionsPsychologySelf-Awareness
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about emotional intelligence.
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