We can come to look upon the deaths of our enemies with as much regret as we feel for those of our friends, namely, when we miss their existence as witnesses to our success.
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The safest way of not being very miserable is not to expect to be very happy.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Expecting less can lead to less disappointment and more contentment.
Arthur Schopenhauer's quote reflects a philosophical outlook on happiness and expectation. By suggesting that not expecting to be very happy can protect one from misery, he highlights the idea that higher expectations can lead to greater disappointment, and finding peace in lower expectations can contribute to a more stable emotional state.
Themes
HappinessExpectationsContentmentPhilosophyMisery
In practice
Example use cases
Discussing the importance of managing expectations in a self-improvement seminar.
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