How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
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Satisfied needs do not motivate. It's only the unsatisfied need that motivates. Next to physical survival, the greatest need of a human being is psychological survival - to be understood, to be affirmed, to be validated, to be appreciated.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Unmet needs drive human motivation, particularly the need for psychological validation and appreciation.
In this quote, Stephen Covey emphasizes the idea that motivation stems from unfulfilled needs rather than satisfied ones. While physical survival is crucial, the deeper psychological needs for understanding, affirmation, validation, and appreciation are equally fundamental to human existence. These psychological factors are what truly inspire individuals to act and seek improvement in their lives.
Themes
MotivationNeedsPsychologicalSurvivalValidationAppreciation
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech to encourage personal growth.
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