My immediate family was always very supportive. It was my own fear of the rest of the world not accepting me, the rest of our society not accepting my wish to be an actor.
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I thought I was going to school to be other people, but really, what I learned was to be myself - accepting myself, my strengths and weaknesses.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance over conforming to others' expectations.
Lupita Nyong'o reflects on her educational journey, revealing that while she initially believed she was learning to emulate others, the true lesson was in embracing her own identity, including both her strengths and vulnerabilities. This realization denotes a significant shift from seeking approval to valuing self-acceptance, highlighting the transformative power of education in fostering personal growth and authenticity.
Themes
Self-AcceptanceEducationIdentityPersonal GrowthAuthenticity
In practice
Example use cases
In a graduation speech, a speaker might use this quote to inspire students to embrace their true selves as they step into the world.
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