Blow the candle out, I don't need to see what my thoughts look like.
Emile ZolaRead
They talked so, with secret hearts, without needing words, talking of other things... They could have suddenly continued their confessions aloud, without ceasing to understand each other.
Interpretation
True understanding in relationships transcends words.
This quote by Emile Zola emphasizes the deep connection that can exist between individuals, particularly in romantic relationships, where mutual understanding and unspoken emotions can convey more than words ever could. It reflects the idea that sometimes, the bond shared is so profound that verbal communication becomes secondary to the emotional and intuitive understanding that partners have of each other.
In practice
In a wedding speech emphasizing the couple's unique bond.
Blow the candle out, I don't need to see what my thoughts look like.
I believe that all is illusion and vanity outside the treasure of truths slowly accumulated, and which will never again be lost. I believe that the sum of these truths, always increasing, will at last confer on man incalculable power and peace, if not happiness. Yes, I believe in the final triumph of life.
A ruined man fell from her hands like a ripe fruit, to lie rotting on the ground.
Oh, the fools, like a lot of good little schoolboys, scared to death of anything they've been taught is wrong!
Did not one spend the first half of one's days in dreams of happiness and the second half in regrets and terrors?
They dared not peer down into their own natures, down into the feverish confusion that filled their minds with a kind of dense, acrid mist.
One of the things I try to work with white people on is letting go of our criteria about how people of color give us feedback. We have to build our stamina to just be humble and bear witness to the pain we've caused.
To find yourself jilted is a blow to your pride. Do your best to forget it and if you don't succeed, at least pretend to.
Every tragedy of the human experience can be attributed to one human decision - the decision to withdraw from each other.
Many men admire strong women but they don't love them. Some women succeed at being strong and also tender, but most of those who have intended to walk alone, making their own way, have lost their happiness.
Nobody asks you to love the whole world, only to be honest, ehrlich. Don't have a loud mouth. The more you love people the more they'll mix you up. A child loves, a person respects. Respect is better than love.
Most of my books have been about the complex ways an individual depends on community.
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