Our idea of a real problem is someone else's idea of an ultimate dream. Put the 'problem' in perspective
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The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you're in control of your life. If you don't, life controls you.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Success comes from mastering pain and pleasure rather than being controlled by them.
In this quote, Tony Robbins emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence and personal agency in achieving success. He suggests that those who learn to navigate and utilize their experiences of pain and pleasure can take control of their lives, while those who allow these feelings to dictate their actions may find themselves at the mercy of life's challenges.
Themes
SuccessPainPleasureControlLifeAgency
In practice
Example use cases
A motivational speaker might use this quote during a workshop on personal development.
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