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We seldom find people ungrateful so long as it is thought we can serve them.
Francois De La Rochefoucauld
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Interpretation

What this quote means

People are often grateful as long as they believe they can benefit from someone else's help.

This quote by Francois De La Rochefoucauld highlights the idea that gratitude is often contingent on the expectation of continued assistance. It suggests that individuals tend to appreciate those who support them only when they perceive that there is potential for future benefits, revealing a conditional nature of human relationships and gratitude.

Themes

GratitudeRelationshipsSelfishnessServiceAppreciation

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about teamwork, one might say, 'Remember, we seldom find people ungrateful as long as it is thought we can serve them.'

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