What air is to the body, to feel understood is to the heart.
Stephen CoveyRead
Sex prejudice is so ingrained in our society that many who practice it are simply unaware that they are hurting. It is the last socially acceptable prejudice.
Interpretation
Sex prejudice is often unnoticed by those who perpetuate it, making it a deeply rooted issue in society.
This quote by Bernice Sandler highlights the insidious nature of sex prejudice, suggesting that it is often so deeply embedded in societal norms that individuals may not even recognize their own discriminatory behaviors. Sandler argues that this form of prejudice persists as the final socially tolerated bias, which underscores the need for awareness and change in both attitudes and actions toward gender equality.
In practice
During a seminar on gender equality, this quote could be presented to illustrate the subtlety of prevalent prejudices.
What air is to the body, to feel understood is to the heart.
You can tell a workingman you like him, but he knows whether you are sincere or not. You can't make him believe you are interested in his welfare unless you are.
Hazel has to realize that her mom was wrong when she said, βI wonβt be a mother anymore.β The truth is, after Hazel dies (assuming she dies), her mom will still be her mom, just as my grandmother is still my grandmother even though she has died. As long as either person is still alive, that relationship survives. (It changes, but it survives.)
I'm not lonely, and I think that has a lot to do with what's on my bedside table rather than what's in my bed.
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The simple power of prayer can save us all kinds of time and trouble if we will ask God to give us wisdom and discernment in our relationships.
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