Healing for me is being able to sit next to the butcher and say 'Yes, I’m sitting next to the butcher now,' instead of saying 'there is no butcher'.
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From in the shadow she calls. And in the shadow she finds a way, finds a way. And in the shadow she crawls, clutching her faded photograph. My image under her thumb. Yes with a message for my heart. She’s been everybody else’s girl maybe one day she’ll be her own.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects the struggle of identity and self-discovery amidst external expectations.
In this quote, Tori Amos expresses the journey of a woman who has been defined by her relationships with others, symbolized by the 'shadow' under which she operates. The imagery of her 'faded photograph' suggests a longing for authenticity and self-ownership, emphasizing that while she has been perceived as belonging to others, there remains the hope that one day she will claim herself and her identity as her own.
Themes
IdentitySelf-DiscoveryLoveRelationshipsAuthenticity
In practice
Example use cases
During a book club discussion on self-identity and relationships, this quote can prompt a deeper conversation.
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I don't want to sit on the sidelines and not value the gift of being here. Instead of the idea of time ticking away, the grains of sand running out, I try to think of time as giving me another grain of sand, another gift. So time passing is an accumulation, rather than a diminishing.
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I don't mind a dirty girl. But what I find tragic is when we, as women, become not the subject of our own story but someone else's object.
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For many years, I shut down that place inside myself that needed to rage, cry, ask questions and basically just express herself. I made a conscious choice when I put (the song) 'Me and a Gun' on the record not to stay a victim anymore.
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