Healing for me is being able to sit next to the butcher and say 'Yes, I’m sitting next to the butcher now,' instead of saying 'there is no butcher'.
Tori AmosRead
I don't mind a dirty girl. But what I find tragic is when we, as women, become not the subject of our own story but someone else's object.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Women should be the protagonists of their own narratives rather than objects in someone else’s story.
Tori Amos emphasizes the importance of women owning their stories and identities, rather than allowing themselves to be defined or objectified by external societal expectations or the narratives created by others. She highlights that losing agency over one's own life can be a tragic consequence of societal influence, urging women to reclaim their power and voice in their personal stories.
Themes
WomenIdentityNarrativeAgencyObjectification
In practice
Example use cases
In a women's empowerment workshop, this quote serves to inspire participants to take control of their narratives.
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From in the shadow she calls. And in the shadow she finds a way, finds a way. And in the shadow she crawls, clutching her faded photograph. My image under her thumb. Yes with a message for my heart. She’s been everybody else’s girl maybe one day she’ll be her own.
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