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Tell me what you yearn for and I shall tell you who you are. We are what we reach for, the idealized image that drives our wandering.
James Hillman
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What this quote means

Our aspirations define our identity and give meaning to our existence.

This quote by James Hillman emphasizes the idea that our desires and ambitions shape who we are as individuals. It suggests that the things we yearn for reflect our true selves and that these aspirations guide our actions and choices, creating an idealized version of who we aspire to be. By acknowledging what we reach for, we can gain deeper insights into our character and purpose in life.

Themes

YearningIdentityAspirationSelf-DiscoveryPurpose

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Example use cases

In a motivational speech about personal growth.

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