I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
Charles BukowskiRead
since some people had told me that I was ugly, I always preferred shade to the sun, darkness to light
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects a deep sense of insecurity and a preference for invisibility over exposure to judgment.
In this quote, Charles Bukowski expresses his feelings of unworthiness stemming from harsh criticism and societal standards of beauty. He metaphorically prefers the comfort of darkness, which offers anonymity and protection from the harsh light of scrutiny, illustrating how negative perceptions can shape one's self-image and choices in life.
Themes
InsecuritiesSelf-ImageDarknessBeautyJudgment
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about self-esteem, I could quote Bukowski to illustrate how external opinions can affect one's self-perception.
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